How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Two of my family members have recently converted to Islam and have brought shame on my family. How do I get them back into the fold of Hinduism?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

When a black man and a white woman have a child, does the child become white? If a white man and a black woman have a child, does the child become black?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

What is the best way to get started using AI to make my own apps?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What are the pros and cons of a prospective bride/groom not having any siblings?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).